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Special Needs Spotlight || Brittani

My name is Brittani Ehrhorn. I’m a 32 year old woman who has Turner Syndrome (TS). TS is a chromosomal abnormality where a female is missing her last chromosome. It causes complications with many body systems, like growth, the heart, bones, and hormones. Only 2% of babies with the abnormality actually survive to birth. And many will need heart surgery soon after birth.

I am currently a nurse, and soon-to-be nurse practitioner. I consider myself an advocate and educator for Turner Syndrome. I live in Southern California close to my parents and three siblings where I get to enjoy being 5 minutes away from the Pacific Ocean…one of my favorite places to be. Turner Syndrome has always been apart of my life.I was fortunate enough to get a diagnosis at birth so I could get the help I needed right away. There is a whole health story I can talk about too, and how I still keep in touch with my pediatric doctors and nurses because of how impactful they have been. However, I will say that it has been so rewarding to work my way as a nurse and nurse practitioner. It is a true full circle moment as I’ve been able to provide support and care for other girls with Turner Syndrome now as I truly feel it is my calling and passion to help care for the health of those who also have this condition.

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Miggy: Hi Brittani and welcome! I’m so excited to have you today and to learn more about you and Turner syndrome. Let’s start at the beginning, what is Turner syndrome and what it looks like for you specifically? Do you know how your parents first learned about your diagnosis and how they first reacted? What do you remember about those early years? Overall how would you categorize your childhood? Looking back now, do you have a different view of how those early years have shaped you?  (Sorry! This is a lot of questions at once!)

Brittani: TS is a chromosomal abnormality where an individual is missing there very last chromosome, and it only affects women. TS causes abnormalities in many body systems. For example, hormonal complications (such as insufficient growth hormone and  production), heart complications, thyroid complications, low bone density with older age and diabetes. For me TS has impacted me as I had to take growth hormones for about eight years during my childhood, I take hormone replacement therapy, I have Hashimoto thyroiditis and part of my heart (the aorta) is enlarged and I will actually need open heart surgery in the next year to two.

My parents learned that I had Turner Syndrome (TS) directly after I was born. I’m sure they had a lot of emotions, but primarily they were advocates and fighters for me. They sought out the best care for me, even to the point of choosing a doctor that was a seven hour drive away from us because he was one of the top specialist regarding Turner Syndrome (TS). What I remember is that my parents made it fun for me to see my care team. It was always a treat to drive from Orange County to Stanford children’s hospital and stay in Northern California with just my parents while my siblings stayed at home (sorry sisters and brother). And my endocrinologist and his nursing staff literally felt like family. My doctor was the same age as my parents and even had a red head daughter, just like me who was just about my age. I feel like even though I had medical concerns, I had a pretty normal childhood. I felt so loved and cared for. I thrived in school, and loved gymnastics. Only my family knew that I had Turner syndrome so I was not treated differently by peers.

These years shaped me for many reasons. Firstly, my parents taught me how to advocate for myself. And as a woman with Turner syndrome it has literally saved my life; this is because I found out about a heart abnormality I have only by advocating for myself when my doctor otherwise was not going to do any testing. But I knew the concerns and wanted to follow medical guidelines provided by the Turner Syndrome Society of the US. Secondly, this made me realize how much I wanted to be in the healthcare field to educate and spread awareness about Turner syndrome as well as help provide care for TS patients. Lastly, they were an education in knowing my endless potential and that I am a person first and foremost.
 
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My Favorite Skin Care Products

When I was a senior in high school my prom date’s mom told me I looked like I was 12. In college I was told more than once, that I looked like “a little girl.” I’m not short (5’7″)–so it’s not a stature thing, but now that I’m a full grown adult and people are surprised by my age–You’re in your 40’s!?!–and it finally feels like a compliment, I OWN IT. Why yes I am in ym 40’s, Thank you for being surprised by my age in a good way. 

People routinely ask me about my skin care regimen on Instagram and while clearly some of it stems from having the face of a young child, I do try and take good care of my skin and routely try new products and see what is working or what’s not working.

About 6 months ago I read an article saying that the secret to good skin is being rich. Sounds accurate. The point being that its not about how much water you drink and maybe not even your genetic make up, but rather if you have enough money you can have great skin. In some ways that idea can feel discouraging as not many of us can afford to spend a Beyonce video on products and proceedures. On the otherhand, I think it’s great news that even if you can’t afford to go over the top, many of us can splurge on a few high-quality products that will drastically enhance the look and appearance of our skin–everything from acne and age spots to fine lines and wrinkles. Since I don’t ever go to the dermatologist I have no qualms about using higher quality products at home. (Although, perhaps if I went to the dermo once in a while I’d have a better idea about what I should be using on my skin?) This post is not sponsored, but I just want to say that I purchase the majority of my products from Sephora as I really like all the benefits that come from shopping there–mainly that everything is returnable if you don’t like it, and I love all the free little gifts you can get from accruing points.

Before we jump in lets quickly go over ALL THE DISCLAIMERS! I am not a doctor, physician, estethian, skin care guru or psychic. I am just a FEMALE WITH SKIN sharing what skincare products work for me. Also, if you have serious skin issues you probably will benefit greatly from a visit to a dermatologist or even your doctor as I don’t think there will be one magic over-the-counter product listed here that will be the solution. ( Also, as I said before this post is not sponsored but I am using affiliate links. You can learn more about those here. Lastly, I know there are a lot of wonderful products out there, these are just what I use, and while I know you have only the best of intentions I don’t want to learn more about Rodan and Fields or any other products you are selling. Thank you for respecting that. OK lets get started!
 
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Special Needs Spotlight || Victoria

My name is Victoria Judson. I am 19 years old. I was born to Teresa and Russ Judson. We live in Minnesota. The diagnosis that affects me the most is Congenital Insensitivity to Pain with Anhidrosis (CIPA) also known as Hereditary Sensory and Autonomic Neuropathy type IV(HSAN IV/4). I was officially diagnosed on April 4, 2019. We are still coming to grips with the diagnosis even though I was born with it and have had it my whole life. CIPA is a nerve disorder and an extremely rare inherited genetic disorder that makes me unable to feel pain and temperature, unable to sweat, have intellectual disability, and have emotional and behavior challenges. My medical needs have been worsening these last 5 years. Nobody knows why. My parents and I will be going to Mayo Clinic in June for whole exome sequencing so they can try to identify a gene. I have a mutation on the SPG11 gene and it causes autism and intellectual disability–I have both.

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Miggy: Hi Victoria and welcome! I’m so excited to have you here today as I love featuring adults with disabilities to get their first hand perspective. Let’s start at the beginning, do you know how your parents first learned about your diagnosis (diagnoses) and how they first reacted? What do you remember about those early years? Overall how would you categorize your childhood (or do you)? Looking back now, do you have a different view of how those early years have shaped you?

Victoria: My parents always knew something was off. I never cried when I was a baby. They just thought I was a quiet baby. During the early years, I had a lot of meltdowns and I had countless injuries without feeling any pain. My childhood was challenging. My parents didn’t know there was an actual condition that prevents you from feeling pain or being able to sweat. They had to make sure I didn’t get injured. I had to stay inside each summer since I can’t sweat and I overheat easily. Those early years are hard to look back on but I am my own self advocate now and I have my parents’ help.

Miggy: Can you tell me what your family life was like growing up? Did you have great support from your family and siblings? Was there anything you wish they would have done differently?

Victoria:My family life was really supportive. My siblings were somewhat nice to me but they didn’t understand me. I wish they’d paid more attention when I got hurt. They thought I was exaggerating when I told them I couldn’t feel pain and they thought the reason why I couldn’t walk far on hikes was from elevation sickness when it was really because I overheat since I can’t sweat. I am not passing judgement on my parents or family, I am just telling it as how it
 
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Is the Future Accessible?

A couple of months ago I saw this video of an entire neighborhood learning sign language so they could communicate with a deaf toddler in their community.

I cried happy tears. This level of inclusion–people going out of their way to hire and learn a new language–is not something to you see everyday. Or anyday. But I dream of it.

And sometimes it feels like it might actually be doable. Other times it seems like a pipedream.
Doable.
Pipedream.
Doable.
Pipedream.

Doable: Did you know that in the early 1800’s Martha’s Vineyard was a sort of deaf utopia? The island had a high rate of deaf people (1 in 155, and in some areas as high as 1 in 4, as opposed to 1 in 6000 for the rest of the US) due to a heridiary condition brough over in the late 1700’s and the fact that many islanders married within the community. So the entire island used a highly developed form of sign language still referred to as Martha’s Vineyard Sign Language, whether they were deaf or not. The communication between deaf and hearing people was seamless and deafness was not considered to be a disability. “With no communication barrier, deaf individuals were fully integrated into island life, making livings as fishermen and farmers and participating in social, civic, and religious activities. There was no “deaf” society—no activities exclusive to the deaf.”

Pipedream: We live in a beautiful, charming community with homes that date back to the 1800’s, but also some beautiful mid-century gems and everything in between. I have seen a couple homes with ramps that have been clearly added onto for the sake of accessibility, but the majority, the VAST MAJORITY (I’m guessing in the high 90’s percentile) are not accessible. Why would they be? I don’t think antique wheelchairs allowed for much independence even if you could use a modern manual chair. Freak, even rich old Man Potter had to have someone just to push him around. And besides we hid the “cripples” back then. Of course we didn’t think about accessibility. And now that we’re in the 21st century we have to make our public buildings accessible, buuuuuuuuut if it’s a historical building and putting a ramp on it would ruin the integrity of the building…well then we just might be able to get away with no ramp. Like some of the very pretty buildings in our town. Did you know Lamp loves drama and acting? But the Fine Arts Center in town isn’t accessible. Oh well. Did I mention the building is really beautiful? And we’re not even talking about homes….
 
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Special Needs Spotlight Then + Now || Julianna, Blake + Nathan

Hey guys, Miggy here! I have another fantastic Spotlight Then + Now update for you today. I first shared Kera and her 3 children back in 2013–it’s been 5 years! I’m excited to have Kera back today sharing how her kids are doing now, as well as how her personal journey has evolved in the past 5 years. (Hint: a lot.) You can read the original spotlight here. Enjoy!
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Miggy: Welcome back Kera! First, let’s start with a brief overview of your children Julianna, Blake and Nathan, your 3 beautiful redheads! What are their diagnosis and how does these diagnosis and/or conditions specifically manifest in your kids?

Kera: Julianna is 15 now, and has been diagnosed with autism and intellectual disability. She is going to high school in the fall! She tries her best to be social and loves to say hi to her friends and give them a little side hug. She is aware that she has autism now, which is actually tough for her–she doesn’t want to be different or have the struggles that she does. We are working to help her through this and to give her as many opportunities as she can to reach her potential.

Blake is 12 now and was born with a rare blood disorder called mastocytosis, but honestly, it’s not even an issue at this point. He did get his tonsils and adenoids removed last fall–his first surgery! Otherwise, he is a smart, social kid and loves chess, Rubik’s cubes, making stop motion videos, basketball and baseball, and playing Minecraft.

Nathan is 6 now and almost done with kindergarten. In the last post, he had just had his palate repair surgery just a few months prior. Since then, he has continued to receive medical care as he grows, and is doing really great! Speech therapy has been a huge help for him to improve his articulation. He still has his tiny “fistula” or hole in his palate that never fully healed, but it doesn’t cause any problems from him. He’s had a few set of PE tubes to allow for drainage in his ears, and as a result, has perforated ear drums in both ears and some mild hearing loss. After some careful advocating on my part, I was able to get him his own FM system in the classroom and he is hearing the teacher better and responding so well!

Miggy: What has changed the most for you personally about your identity as a special needs parent? For example, have your general views on disability evolved, does your care-taking look different than it used to, and/or do you feel more or less personally balanced than you used to?

Kera: I have come such a long way in 5 1/2 years. I really feel like I have accepted this role as a mom to children with unique needs. I have realized how important it is to identify myself as a caregiver, because what I do is so much more than typical parents do for their children, and there is a good chance I will be caring for my daughter long-term (though we still hope she will be able to become independent someday). After writing my first spotlight post 5 1/2 years ago and receiving such wonderful feedback from your readers, I actually revamped my blog–before, I was just talking about the day-to-day, regular things, but I decided I shouldn’t hide what I face on a regular basis. So I started writing more openly about my experiences, and this led to creating a facebook page, and even being published on several platforms. I began to see that my voice matters, and that by sharing my experiences as a special needs parent, I could not only allow myself to heal, but I could help other parents connect and heal. So I have you to thank for starting me on my journey!
 
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Thursday Link Round Up

Can I do a link round up on a Thursday? Why not I say. There are so many things I’ve been reading and wanting to talk about for a long time, but it’s so hard to fit it all in. So here are some of the many things I’ve been reading, watching, thinking, laughing and enjoying lately. Hang in there, the weekend is almost here! 
 
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Spotlight Revisited || Koko

Hey guys! When I don’t have a new spotlight to feature I sometimes like to pull one from the archives. This one is only a couple years old, but I wanted to re-introduce you to CHARGE syndrome as we’re going to be talking more about it on Monday on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there and in the meantime, enjoy reading about sweet Koko and her family. You can see original spotlight here. Happy Friday!

Holly and Joe are parents to Kokoro, who is a cheeky, happy, musical 18-month-old with a great sense of humour. Kokoro, or Koko, has CHARGE syndrome, which is one of those unexplained spontaneous genetic mutations that occur at conception and result in a range of health issues. For Koko, this means hearing and vision impairment, heart defects and a range of other issues including low muscle tone and missing semi-circular canals which greatly impact her balance. (For more info on CHARGE check out the CHARGE Association http://www.chargesyndrome.org.au/)

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Miggy: Welcome Holly! I’m so happy to be featuring you and your sweet family today, especially your little Koko. (That name! I love it.) First, can you take me back to the day you knew your daughter would have special needs? Was it during pregnancy, shortly after birth or sometime later? Do you remember how you felt? Can you compare those first thoughts and feelings with how you feel now?

Holly: The first time that there was any mention of there being possible issues with Koko’s health was during our 20 week scan. During the 13 week scan, I had been labeled as “low risk” and I now look back on the way I approached the 20 weeks scan as incredibly naive. We were expecting some cute pictures and to hear our baby’s heart beat.

Instead, we were told that there were some “structural issues” with our baby’s heart and brain by the technician and then had to wait 8 hours until the supervising doctor was available to give us more information. When he did he basically presented the information as if there was no alternative but termination and my rather hysterical reaction thankfully encouraged him to hand us over to a team of incredible midwives and doctors who specialize in “at risk” pregnancies. However, as it was Friday afternoon no one was around, so we were sent home for a rather agonizing weekend.

Once we begun further investigations and research it became clear that things were not so black and white, and over the pregnancy, it began to appear that our baby’s brain was in fact a variant of normal. However, she did in fact have heart issues. Additionally, we were told that as there were a couple of issues detected, there was an increased possibility that she could have a genetic issue.

As we aren’t religious, we didn’t have a go-to stance on how we would react in this situation and really hadn’t considered it as a possibility. But over time and lots of chats, both my husband Joe and I felt that this baby was supposed to be born and that between us and our support network, we would be able to provide a loving and happy home for her. Her diagnosis of CHARGE unfolded in the weeks after her birth, and initially felt so devastating I wondered at times if I had subjected her to a life of suffering for my own selfish reasons. These days, most days, it is pretty clear that she is a happy kid who enjoys her life.
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