Last week, I was casually scrolling through Instagram stories when I stopped on my friend, Molly Jackson’s account as it read “I’m buzzing my hair tonight.” As I clicked through I watched as she started chopping off her blonde shoulder length locks with surprise + adrenaline fused glee as her husband filmed and supported her in the background. I got to the end of the stories and there wasn’t yet a final reveal–it was happening almost in real time!–and I went back and tried to piece together what prompted this bold move. It’s not my story to tell, so I’ll direct you to Molly’s post here, but in short she has wanted to do this since high school. (But believe me, there is much more to it than that… Molly is a survivor.)
Two days later a local friend texted me a picture of herself with a newly shaved head and said, “How do you like my cut?” To be clear, these two friends don’t know each other at all. This same friend also cited that she had wanted to do this for a long time and is tired of the upkeep with hair dye and regular hair appointments.
That same week, I saw a post on Cup of Jo of a woman who also shaved her head in quarantine. Again, citing a long-time desire to shave her head and she figured what better time than now?
I can’t be certain, but it seems that the extreme circumstances of the pandemic and ensuing quarantine are bringing people’s inner desires to do something bold to the surface. Personally I’ve never had a desire to buzz my head (also, I have a big scar on the top of my head that I’m pretty sure happened when I hit my head on the corner of the bathroom counter when I was a kid and when I looked in the mirror and thought I had red bubblegum in my hair (which I later realized was blood!) I never told anyone. It might have needed stitches.) but it has been making me think, “Is there something bold I’ve always wanted to do and now would be the perfect time?” Honestly, I can’t think of anything. Ha!
I’m curious, have any of you made similar bold moves out there? Something you’ve always wanted to do that has suddenly felt like the right time to do it? Are you contemplating something? Tell us so we can give you the push (or pull) you might need!
Wow that’s bold! I just learned to embroider by hand. More specifically I love those designs with the f word in them. So that’s what I’m doing now 🤣🤣 not that bold but I thought this was the perfect time to learn something new.
I think that’s a pretty brilliant craft to pick up right now! F-word needle point is bold in it’s own right.
I did something bold… Last week I ordered a couple of huge canvases and am going to paint them for our front room. I am not an artist although I’ve always wanted to be.
The second bold thing I did was telling my amazing artist friend my goal, and now it’s out there. 🙊 May be calling you for help. 😆
YESSSS! I can’t wait to see… and help. Very cool Debi.