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The 4 Year Old Mind

This was a conversation my 4 year old and I were having in the car last night.  She was telling me something very, very important and for a few minutes I just wasn’t paying attention because I was focused on the road and making sure I was going the right way.  I completely missed the first few sentences and misunderstood what she had said.  Here’s where we pick up….

PSP:  Mama!  That’s not what I said!
Me:  I’m sorry sweetie I was trying to pay attention to where we were driving, can you tell me again?
PSP:  No!  I only want to tell you one time.
Me:  I know, I’m sorry I just didn’t hear what you said.
PSP:  Ma-meee! 
Me:  Why are you getting so frustrated, I just didn’t hear because I was trying to figure out where we’re going…so can you tell me again?
PSP:  No.  I only want to tell it once!
Me:  OK, well then lets talk about something else.
PSP:  No!  Ma-meee….
Me:  Well honey, I didn’t hear what you said, so I don’t understand and now you won’t tell me…so that’s the end of it.
PSP:  That’s NOT the end of it.
Me:  OK.  Well, then if you want me to understand you have to tell me again.
PSP:  No mom….It’s too hard to say it again I only want to say it one time.
Me:  (laughing)
PSP:  Maa-ooom!  
Me:  I just…I don’t know what to do…I don’t know what you said, you won’t say it again and you don’t want to talk about something else.  (I try to stay quiet for a minute to see if she’ll drop it).
PSP:  Ma-mee!
Me:  Yes?
PSP:  This is NOT the end of it.
ME:  OK, well then you need to tell me again.  I’m sorry I didn’t listen the first time, but I promise I’ll listen now.
PSP:  No, I only want to say it once.
Me:  I know, but can you say it twice just this one time?
PSP:  No!
Me:  (Laughing my head off)
PSP:  (Scowling her head off)

I swear to you this conversation went on in this manner for 7-8 minutes.  Finally, finally she conceded to share her original thoughts:

PSP:  So in our next new house…
Me:  You mean the next house we live in, not our new house now?
PSP:  MO-OOOM!
Me:  OK, sorry sorry, keep going.
PSP:  So maybe in our next new house, maybe there could be a pond in the back and then maybe it can be winter and snow and then maybe the pond will freeze and then you can buy me some ice skates and I can learn how to ice skate!

We then proceeded to have a great conversation about ice skating, frozen ponds and falling on your bum.

Love that girl.

 

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